I was doin a bit of research here a week er so back, an I got to wanderin bout what Iu read, wantred ya'lls opinion... does the "amount" of ejactulate, for the men, make a better organsm the more ejaculate there is, an for the gasls, does it matter to you how much ejactulate there is from your men/erm.... man? I know I've had O's that include alot of ejaculate, an other times less, bnut I wouldn't say one was better then the other per-se ya know? I have a sample video of a "herbal drug" thatg increases the amount of ejaculate for men, but before I spend my money on sumthin that doesne't matter anyways, I was curious wether t o weomen it even matters... though I'd suspect it' a matter of jes as a woman havin more to havta clena up typo thin? any REAL ideads? none of this silly foolin roundf stuff ya know, I';m actually curious wether it would inhance er make any differnece at all ya know?

:dunno: Doesn't matter to me, really..........

no--I think its gross either way.. More goo=more nasty mess...:puke:

What is it with men and their being proud of their "big loads"? :blink: Hubby doesn't care and neither do I. The less there is, the less mess to clean up.

I'm not so sure it's 'men bein proud of a large load' per-se... could be, but that's why I says, I've had both but wouldn't really say one was more then the other as far as feel goes. I agree thins can be messy... but uh... well... how to say this nicely.... erm.. it's NOT MY PROBLEM :)

wimen folk are the ones responsible for the wet spots... after all it's a gift from the man. hehe

String, you think all cum is jes gross?

I had read bout a herbal drug that had sumthin like a 4 time increase of seminal fluid wit a 96% success rate. I have a sample video off thier website, but it's graphic an not for folks here, if anyone jes hasta have it, I could send it to em. But even I thought in this sample that the amount of ejaculate was jes over the top.

This whole thin is jes all bout curiosity on my part. I don't think it'd feel any better er the like, but I have heard of some women an the whole pirmal thin, wantin their men to be able to produce, hung this way, have claws on thier hands, bunch of cum etc etc. So I was jes curious was all. Though.. it looks like from this pool of folks, it jes doesn't make a differece either direction huh?

I think I know what you're talking about A2J.

While I agree that it makes no difference to women, I think that we (men) tend to view it as an indicator of how long our orgasm lasts or how much we actually enjoyed the act.

I saw a similar discussion over on the marriage bed, but their conversations were tightly aligned with the things that take place in adult films.

Well, I'd say that the longer it's been, the larger the amount. And if it's been, like, 3 FREAKIN DAYS, one is more likely to enjoy it more.

Some women like to rub it all over afterwards, so a large amount = more fun for them. But I guess it's not for everyone. ;)

I've pretty much dropped the idea of the herbal deal mysef, Sarah didn't seem all that interested in it, er more to the point she jes didn't care. So what would really be the point anyways ya know? I don't personnaly think it increases anythin for the man anyways, an it does jes create more mess, though there is sumthin mildly entertainin bout floodin Sarah. Sorta weird I know, but I'm a weird sort :P

I think the only time it would make any difference would be when you are trying to conceive. Then more is definately better.

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That's a little too pornographic for me!

That would only increase the amount of ejaculate, not the sperm count, so that wouldn't make any difference in TTC...Only increases stuff from the prostate, not the testes, I believe...

That's true String, only the more liquid there is wit either the man er woman the easier the sperm cell travels, it's a problem when the female is dry er doesn't have very good mucus because the sperm have a harder time gittin to where they are tryin to go.

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"Does pornography have an effect on people?" I would say the above quote gives the answer. I can't imagine any woman wanting to do that, nor can I imagine any "non-pornography-influenced" guy wanting someone to do that.

As for the OP I don't think I would ever take anything like that. If our sex gets particularly messy I always feel the need to say, "Sorry, honey" even though she's cool about it. Maybe she's just like "wait until you see all the junk that comes outta me when we have a baby. I better not hear a word from you then!"

Exactly...Although a million billion men will try to claim that porn hasn't influenced their tastes/preferences/ideas...The plain truth is that it will/does/has...Things like the above are just not behaviors naturally ingrained in us by God...(I can hear the wheels of debate on this beginning to turn, but I'm not gonna go there.)

I wasn't goin to touch on this one til tomarra.. guess ya'll leave me no choice.

CJ, my friend, that comment has got to be one of the worst ones I have ever seen you post. It comes down to each to thier own. I knew a gal many years ago who rubbed cum on er belly, she was a mexican an they have plenty of superstitions, an one of em was by rubbin it on their belly it made the skin smoother an all that jazz so when they did git preganat they didn't end up wit strech marks.

I don't think what Silent said had anythin to do wit porn industry, an String, I don't think the God who created our bodies an gave us to one another for enjoyment is sittin their slappin His forehead because one er the other takes enjoyment from sumthin like that.

I wouldn't do it, doesn't mean someone else wouldn't. Sarah an I do thins that others don't an they do thins we don't. I don't think this has anythin in the world to do wit porn.

A classic example, Sarah an I neither of us likes clothes, so we wear as lil as possible, there's plenty on here that won't sleep naked period. Not like Lena who gits to cold er whatever it was, but they make the choice, I think it's Red who says he gits up an puts clothes back on after they've done thier buisness. Because Sarah an I sleep in the nude makes us devieants er sumthin like that? It's in some way not honorin to God? How bout those folks who have sex in only one position, mainly clothed, lights off an no talkin. etc etc etc. It's really not any of our buisness what others do in thier bed. Only time I'd have a fit is if one of ya'll came on here an said my spouse brought a thrid party to the bed etc etc.

It's jes like CJ, I mean your sorry you made a mess. I'm not, it's hardly a problem in my opinion an when you've scopped the contents of my wifes belly out of the bath tub a time er two, it doesn't bother me to leave a bit of a wet spot runnin round. This boils down to what works for each other. If silents wife likes to twirl on er head an rub cum on ersef, who are any of us to say it's this way er that?

I don't find it a turn on at all to see some gal smir stuff on, but that's jes me, should I then impose that thinkin to say that NO man ever anywhere would find it a turn on er whatever? I don't think so.

Sorry to offend, if that was the case, I really wasn't trying too. Please be careful not to put any more weight than my opinion on my previous response. Am I saying that it isn't biblical? Absolutely not! Am I saying it's "against the rules"? No! What I am saying is that it is MY opinion that many things we desire to do in the bedroom come from outside influences and it is important that we not feed those influences or degrade our marriage bed. I knew many guys in college who would share (though I often begged them not to) about their sexual exploits and many of these guys would laugh about squirting girls in the face or chest or whatever. When I heard them talk about it, it wasn't a loving experiance, it was something they found gross and laughed AT the girl they were with. It just further demonstrated how little they thought of the young women they were with. Honestly, it sickened me b/c I thought about these girls' fathers and future husbands. These guys had no respect for the girls they were with, it was demeaning what they were doing- putting her in her place, so to speak. Again I'm sorry if I offended but understand that what I stated was just a personal opinion, it isn't biblical law!

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Yeah, it did not have anything to do with porn. Seriously. Not lyin'.

Pornography is a lame imitation of real fun, IMO.

Yeppers.

I wasn't trying to accuse you silent... sorry if it came out that way!