In marriage, each person has certain responsibilities, for examplem, I make money, Sarah makes food.

So what happens when one er the other decides they can not er will not do sumthin an yet it still needs to git done? The only answer I know of is for the other person to pick up the slack an carry on. Buuuuuuttttt... what happens when one person is quittin thins all the time an there's jes no more left in the other person to pick up the slack? What happens when that goes south? Do you leave it an jes not do it? Hire someone else to do it?

Is marriage fair? We know life isn't fair, but what bout marriage, is it fair? Er should it be fair?

If each party is pullin thier own weight an thier share of the marriage, then the only person left to haul the rest is the one that hasn't quit. An I don't think it matters what the thin is, say takin the trash for example. When I'm gone Sarah must take the trash, if she were to quit that job, there's nuthin in the world I could do bout it. Less I hired some help I guess.

Eh, as fair as it CAN be, I guess.

I think it all evens out, eventually~most times, Ty & I each have our own "jobs" but sometimes one has to pick up the slack for the other.

Like when my mom was in the hospital recently, I was there nearly every night so that left Ty to do dinner for himself & Andie, get her ready for bed, etc. The kind of stuff I normally do.

And there are days when he's out of town (like today) which left me to take out the trash can and bring it back in, he'll be late getting in tonight which means I do the WHOLE bedtime routine (with Andie) by myself, his jobs at night which are feeding the fish, making sure all the doors are locked, etc.

But if those times are few & far between, I think it all averages out in the end.

I am not even going to get into this one.. I'll get irate and say a few things about my marriage and husband that I shouldn't...


String kindly backs out of conversation..:bolt: