There was a gal on cf in the marriage ministry that would blow through once ever few months actin like she was tryin to git folks to convince er that it was ok to blow off er husband. Cain't member er name.. Lori er sumthin... but the trade mark deal she had goin was that she said er realtionship to er husband was lil more then a buisness relationship.

I think I've come to a point in my life where I actually understand what that means, where your relationship boils all down to a buisness relation. I cain't swaer to it of course, but I git alot of time to think in this truck an I play wit all kinds of thins an I membered that gal the other day, I think I might actually understand what she was sayin, still doesn't give er permission er whatever to dump er husband I don't guess but I wonder if there is some truth to a marriage that has moved into jes the buisness world, where day to day buisness is carried out an that's jes bout it. What do ya'll think?

What is this thread invisible er sumthin? perhaps a taboo subject? Jes one of em no one wants to comment on?

Got no idea what you're talking about....

I remember her! She was always looking for some excuse for being a jerk towards her wimpy husband. She even cheated on him a couple of times I think.

But no I will not abide a business relationship. I need passion and emotion.

No clue of the Thread was from over on cf...

But relationships to work I think need part business mind part romance mind.... too much of one or the other and things will just fail.....

Not enough of a business mind finances end up in the toilet.... Creditors banging down the door can distract the romance mind resentment builds.... Things just dont' get done leads to frustration....


Not enough of a romance mind, eyes can begin to wander, and affections get mislaid (no pun intended)......

Love and a relationship is a balancing act.....

But it's worth it....

I don't know if I know who you mean. But I do understand what you're talking about.

The longer I'm married the harder it is to be married. Does that make sense? You would think that you could reach a point in a relationship where you sort of cruise. But you can't. Because as soon as you're cruising, you're taking the other person for granted. As soon as you start cruising through your marriage, you lose that connection.

It's constant work. Constant. And do you notice how marriage is under attack from the enemy lately? We're seeing so much divorce and division in the church, it's amazing to me. Seemingly normal, God-fearing people just losing their minds annd destroying their marriages. It's crazy.

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I don't know....I could use a little MORE business type stuff and less of the huggy/kissy foo foo.