How do you guy spice things up in the bedroom?

We're not having frequency issues, but stuck doing the same old, same old.

Can't help you there..We've had problems the entireduration of our marriage that are just lately turning toward repair...Sorry...

That's tough for another couple to answer. I mean, what works for one couple might not work for another. Have you talked about this? Sometimes talking about, in the middle of the night, in the dark, helps to reveal things that might not have other wise come to light. Maybe you've been thinking you want to try something new...or maybe she'd like something else... Talking is so huge.

Ask her what she'd like to try, tell her what you'd like to try...go from there...

I bring in the Viking Helmet......

Oh dear....I'm blushing....

I agree wit Lynn, for anyone to even try an ventre a guess, we'd need to know a bit TMI from you on your current levels. For example, if ya'll are the type, vaginal/missionary an no deviation then folks could respond maybe wit a couple slight suggestions, if your 3 holes to Sunday anywhere any time then it'd be a different suggestion. I support jes talkin it out, say to er hey I was thinkin bout this er that, you'd git an idea real quick like what er opinion would be. I'd do it somewhat playfully, in the middle of er not even, jes in casual conversation say hey I was thinkin bout this er that. That is to say, if you've been thinkin bout this er that, if you hadn't got a clue bout what you might like then we're back to sqaure one agin. Though... Raspies a good bro, he might have sumthin up wit that helmet idea.

There is a store called lovers lane.... I belive they have a website too....

You can spice it up from Lingere(sp) to toys and beyond whatever your threshold is......


Other than that... it's difficult (almost said another word that could have been a double entendre) to say how to spice it up because well what works for you and yours might not be what works for Misty and I.....

Share fantasies?
Roleplay.... Little red riding hood and hte big bad wolf, naughty burglar?
Talk dirty?
Speak a different Language?
Talk dirty WHILE Speaking a different Language?
Edible body paint?
Change of Venue?
Change of Style?
Make it a race to see how many "Cookies" you give the other before you tire out?
I dunno......

Oh sometimes I make her speak spanish......

:rolf:

What I like the Viking / Poor Village girl game.....

Hmmm - wouldn't that get a little rough? I'm mean with all that looting and pillaging....

:butt: - now THERE's a real turn-on!

Misty Like it.... she gets tired of having to replace the silverware after I ransack the house though.... and at least I stopped burning the house after the pillage....

Raspy, you're a good bro.

That cracked me up.

We get to to play the - I have no money to pay the plumber - game. Actually, I'm no good at it. Last week the bathroom sink was leaking so Tommy fixed it. So as he's packing up his tools I tell him that I'm sorry, but that I have no money. He gets this really serious look on his face and says "Well, I guess we could work something out". And that's it for me. I'm all giggles! Poor guy, he never gets to find out how plumbers get paid when the housewife has no cash.

Sometimes when we want to change things up, we each have to come up with 3 different ways to do it......different positions, different places (other than the bed or bedroom).

Then you've got 6 to pick from, you pick one of hers for one night, she picks one of yours the next night....etc....etc....

yaaawwwwnnnnnn

Yeah, just about bedtime for me, too. :snooze:

All I'm gonna say is be careful what you ask of Andiesmama on this topic. Some of her ideas just might be a little too :o :eek:

Let's just be glad she hasn't started giving detailed suggestions! We don't wanna go there again!! :blink:

I think you DO want Deb to provide details....why else bring it up? :cheeky:

NNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I like deb's sex threads....


Ty's a lucky man.

eeeeww...

Don't they usually start with lube, or something?

It'll all come out in the end..... :cool:
Butt it's up to her to bring it up again.....


Although I thought that thread was behind us.....

:lena:

Since y'all are DYING to know the juicy details.... :nails: :butt:

Last night, it went :quote: down :quote: like this....


ooops, time for dinner..... :wave:

:faint:

:D

Oh yeah? Well for us this morning it went................oh, look! Got more WORK to do! :eyebrows:

This MORNING????

:faint:

Saturday mornings are becoming quite popular around here. :eyebrows: Make sure the door is locked and the kids asleep or downstairs watching the electronic babysitter and we get about an hour of "alone time" before they come pounding on the door! :shakeit: :booyah:

:faint:

This thread is so tame, we're taking pity on you & introducing you to the racy topics s-l-o-w-l-y...........

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:screwy:

Pfft, ok...yah, right....GF will be next saying how HOT her night or morning was with her hubby.....:cheeky:

GF?? :unsure: :huh:

I meant GM!!

Sheesh, that F could be mistaken for ANYthing! :rolf:

you can call me girlfriend if you want to! :tease: :thanks: :cheeky:

No...we turn down the heater at night! :gotcha:

:lol: We do too! :eyebrows: :shakeit:

uh....yeah....wasn't quite sure there where you were goin' with that.... :blink: :D