As most of you know we haven't been doin all that great accordin to Sarah, I on the other hand am fine. However this is simply not good nuff for Sarah. Apperently bein fine is not good.

Ok I admit, I don't want to argue any more, I don't want to fight I am done foolin wit anythin I am therefore fine. An what, I ask is, wrong wit bein fine?

Nuthin is goin to change, cause nuthin can change so bein mad bout it is rather pointless in my book. But what does aggravate me is the email I got this mornin from my FIL in which he specifically says that Sarah didn't say anythin......... buuuuuuuuutttt... then goes into a spill bout clinical depression (which I personally an for mysef only believe is a myth) an on bout moneis an supplyin needs an housin etc. So it would seem to me that now me bein fine is not only not good for Sarah but anyone she talks to also. Now to clarify I am not accusin er of goin off half cocked talkin outta school er anythin but why is bein fine such a bad thin? Why cain't I be fine an be focused on my duties an as folks say in the truckin world these days "Git er done". What is so wrong wit this?

well, there's NOTHING wrong with being "fine"....I think it's good that you've come to terms with it (as well as you can, anyways)....as far as accepting the fact that you've gotta do the trucking runs, etc.

THAT said, however, maybe since Sarah isn't "fine" with everything, there's still something that needs to be talked about. Now I know most guys aren't "talkers", it's usually the women, but if she's "havin a fit" ( :rollseyes: ....define "fit")...then it sounds to me like there's something that's making her think everything really ISN'T fine....yannow?? So you guys need to talk about it....MORE!!!

Now I want to hear Sarah's side.... B)

I'm hurt! what do you mean Sarah's side?? I'm always balanced an unbiased in all my dealins wit folks on-line! I mean c'mon!! Specifically she ain't fine wit me bein fine, an to prove jes how unfine she is wit me bein fine she kept diggin last night til instead of bein fine, I'm now a wreck agin.... I preferred it when I was fine. Bein fine was fine wit me. Er 'fits' are jes that she thinks I'm really not fine when I say I am fine. So if I cain't tell if I am in fact fine wit it then who can??

ok, fine.... :P

Define "fine". What exactly does fine mean? I mean A2J translation. B)

dictionary.com says that fine is:

Fine - Of superior quality, skill, or appearance: a fine day; a fine writer.

there's a bunch of other def's for it to, like fine grains of sand etc but for me, fine is defined as above. I am fine. Sarah said she needed me to be ok a week er so ago, so I therefore became Ok, an fine.

She seems to have refused to enter this conversation. From what *I* can tell... she's afraid folks are goin to tell er to stop bein a jerk :cheeky:

I'll probly havta bait er into the convo... that's not a rule violation round here is it??

As Switchfoot sez, "More than fine. More than bent on getting by." Mebbe Sarah's like me. She wants a little more out of life than beans & cornbread.

The only time we eat real meat is when my folks bring it to us. And we don't ask. But they bring it. So we eat it.

Yeah, I'd like a steak every now and again. But it ain't gonna happen on my $. I'm learning to be happy with that and church is helping. Maybe she really needs to get involved with a church (one that speaks English, of course...) to find some folks with which to hang... (or is it han'?)

maybe its like this, when my husband thinks things are fine in our relationship I can name off ten things that aren't fine. We women see things differently and cannot understand how our husband s can think that the things we see as "issues" are just "fine". To me, at least, its not fine. I can't see how my hub could possibly think it is.. :dunno: It quite frustrationg and irritating when I think things are in a mess and he's happy go lucky like he just found a dollar or something. :doh: I wish that he could see what I see...