I have no idea how I knew that my wife was the one. After a couple months of dating I couldn't stand the though of being without her. After a couple more months I just knew by looking at her that I could love no other.
Seriously the lust of my life when I was younger was Alyssa Milano, I always thought that if she ever came up to me and said "You, here, now" that I would no matter who I was involved with....
I'm glad to say that now I wouldn't / couldn't... I love my wife too much for something that silly to happen and get in the way....
I don't know... I wasn't overcome with this revelation of, "That's it! She's the one!"
We just worked well together and made it permanent.
But I think I just have an agreeable personality. I've only dumped one girl in my life and it was because of her vanity.
Short Version of Long Story
I didn't wanna Marry Heather... Not that I didn't love her. But Kinda Scared and Young...
I can't say God every really clearly told me to do anything, but God Told me to ask Heather to Marry Me.
Man, from the moment I laid eyes on her, I knew she was the one for me. She is beautiful, great smile, great personality, and taken. Well, so was I. But I kept running into her at college. We became great friends, and I was like a puppy dog. She fed me and I kept coming back. Finally she relented.
Now we're married and have two lovely daughters.
She was HOT! Couldn't keep my hands off her - figured I better marry her before.........something happened.