Found this in an article in Redbook, (ways to spice up your marriage, or something like that)....

Gals: Have you ever stripped for your hubby? Did you feel ridiculous or sexy? Comments?

Guys: Has your wife ever stripped for you? Did you like it, or were you too shocked to enjoy it? Comments?

Yeah, I've stripped for hubby. He liked. :eyebrows:

Did you practice before, like this article talks about? Or did you just decide one night to do it? Did you feel silly or what? Just jumped in with both feet?

Can you tell I'm thinking about it?? :eyebrows: I just don't want my DH to say "What in the WORLD?????" :rollseyes:

We've both done it for each other. I like it. I used to hang out at places to watch women do this. In Texas, they can only take off the tops. In Washington, BOY-HOWDY! 'Course, you gotta get drunk before or after, 'cuz they can't serve booze...

By the way - here's a pic of my favorite blonde pole dancer...

Details, details, details! :tease:

Yeah, I was in "one of those moods" one day and thought/ kinda planned it in my mind and practiced some moves in front of the mirror throughout the day. That evening after some adult beverage and getting hubby all turned on....I just kinda went with the flow, giggly the whole time. He's like....WOOOOW. :drool: I didn't feel too silly....we were too distracted for "silliness". :eyebrows:

Is that good enough for ya? B)

thanks Lena....hmmm....adult beverage....probably would be beneficial...:wine: B)

I'm feeling inspired now! Yeah.... :wine: wait... actually no alcohol for me, bad for possible baby.... that stinks... how will i lose my inhibitions? wait.... that's bad too .... :doh:

Yeah, I'd need to be a little tipsy to do something like that too so it's out for me as well. Not sure doing a strip would be particularly entertaining for my hubby anyways cos we're not much for clothes to begin with so don't have them on to start with :lol:

Yeah, now I wanna hear some of the GUYS' stories! B)

ah....they say 1/2 a glass of wine ocassionally is fine....but if you're like me, it takes more than 1/2 a glass for me to lose my inhibitions!! :lol:

Ooooorrrrr.....get your hubby night vision goggles, have the room pitch black......:lol: There ya go! No alkie involved! :D

:lol: I'd still feel stupid even in the dark.

Uh... yeah... erm... I cain't say as I'm all that bothered by it, doesn't do much for me. I've seen some gals strip down to thier stuff an what not an it's rather pointless in my book, you cain't touch em anyways, so they jes git you all bothered an leave ya to it is all. Far as my wife doin it..... hmmmm thinkin bout it.... hmmm well, maybe if'n she jes started wigglin that tail end of ers... yeah I could go for some of that...... but I don't want no stupid piece of cotton that I probly grew blockin my view!

My wife "used" to be somewhat a clothes person... I broke er of that real quick like an in a hurry, clothes are annoyin, but I take comfort in rememberin that under em clothes we're all naked LOL

My self esteem is just way too low to do this. And I don't drink darn it, so how the heck do you get the guts to do this?

My wife did it quite a few times when we were first married then she didn't for a few years. This year she ordered Carmen Electra's Aerobic Striptease videos and would practice them when I was in the other room grading papers and such. I was never allowed to watch her practice, nor was I allowed to view the video (which I thought was a really easy way to show her respect!).

Anyhow, come Valentine's day she had this whole night planned out. She felt better about her body then she had in a long time b/c she'd been working out everyday and she felt confident in her... eh... stripping b/c she'd been practicing! I can tell you it was awesome! She was so confident and I was so shocked about how good she was (a little scared that she could make a serious career change!) and it was just awesome.

Ladies, do this for your men! He'll love it and you'll be thinking about it for days beforehand so when the time comes you'll be all "revved up" too!

That's me, too, Lynn....but the whole self-esteem thing is totally in our minds...I KNOW my DH finds me attractive and I'm pretty sure he'd be pleasantly floored if I tried this....I just have to get over my inhibitions....

hmmmm....maybe that'll be one of my goals in this weight-loss thing!! :thumbsup:

Guys stories? OK - here ya go. Yeah, I've done it for my wife. Problem is, though I'm a musician, I can't dance. I guess that's why I was in the band.

She laughed.

Laughing in the bedroom...at the right moment...is a good thing Clay!

I don't know about that. Kinda puts a damper on things...

But, I got over it in about 5 seconds :whistle:

DWT

I don't reckon I git it actually, am I the only one not interested in a strip tease? What am I missin? Are ya'll that like it etc normally clothed an don't see each other naked often?

Well, see, us "Canucks" kinda HAFTA wear clothes, otherwise there's a risk of frostbite. :rollseyes: So yeah, we usually make it a habit to wear clothes. In the winter and spring we're still wearing top to bottom jammies...we're not fortunate enough to experience such warm weather that we don't need to wear as much clothing....yanno? So for us, it is a treat to see each other completely naked because we've been "undercover" all day! And to tease each other about it is a bonus! :booyah:

That's why I said, at the right moment. Laughter in bed is great.

See, I'm ticklish...really ticklish. So I have to work through the tickles and the giggles to get through the good stuff. So it's fun.

but isn't tickling different from laughing at performance? Most guys have some sort of performance anxiety, anyway - we wanna make sure our wife is pleased. Laughter just enhances the anxiety...

But, if the need is intense enough, any guy can overcome the anxiety. :eyebrows:

Guess it just depends if you're laughing at or with someone. Hubby and I have had a few giggles over some mishaps in the bedroom which is all in fun. I'm sure your wife wasn't laughing AT you.

What mishaps?!? Define mishaps! You mean like when you sneezed??

That's true - like when she farted... :whistle:

:lol: Yeah, like when I sneezed. It's been like 4 years and we still giggle about that one :D I just had no idea that would happen like that

all right...all right....am I the ONLY one dying of curiosity here??? :rollseyes:

No, Deb. I got the picture eons ago. They're talking about that so they don't have to respond to your OP. :doh: :screwy:

:doh: :rollseyes: CHICKENS!!! :tease:

There was an OP in here somewhere?? I musta missed it hehe

Well the off topic, derailed thread story goes:

After we got done doin our thin an 'thins' were gittin soft agin somewhere between total medium an full while we were doin the oh how I love you le'me count the ways joined stage hehe She had to sneeze, well thinkin nuthin of it I jes moved my head out the way so she could sneeze. She sneezed wit such force that she shot me outta er like a frickin bullet out a gun, it actually kinda hurt when I was torpedo'd out like that.

It was funny, least to us... reckon you had to be there though LOL

You mean ya'll gotta sleep in clothes to?? Ain't you got em heaters up there? What are you worried bout gittin bit if your snuggled next to a warm body? Boy howdy that's one thin I jes couldn't do, I cain't sleep in clothes, bout drive me nuts, an to be next to my woman an she's wearin clothes are you frickin kiddin me?!?!

I guess not everybody has the "No clothes in bed" rule like us :lol:

Like us?? I think my dear your are confused....... That was my rule as you'll recall. No clothes in bed, you had that stupid lil annoyin good for nuthin but bein in the way dumba$$ teady bear thin on the tops of em thins! Stupid clothes.... stupid Adam an Eve.... how dare they screw it up for all of us?!?!

You guys are driving me NUTS! :rollseyes: I think we all got the memo that you don't like to wear clothes a few months ago.

The reason we wear clothes is because unlike you, we have THREE munchkins. They all have different clockwork and we never know which one will need us during the night. So instead of fumbling for pants or top or something during the night, we WEAR our pajamas. Sorry if it violates your rules, but them's the rules around here. :cheeky: :gotcha:

Don't listen to Lena. We don't have to sleep with clothes on!

:rollseyes: Gee, thanks, Red! So, do you sleep in the nude, too? May as well spill it all here. Oh, AND you have to post about a time you stripped for your wife. :whip:

We sleep nude the majority of the time...well, DH does but since I'M the one that has to get up if Andie wakes up during the night :rollseyes: , sometimes I'll have pj's on...it's just easier that way...

I'm just teasing.

No, I don't usually sleep in the nude. I say usually because I woke up at 2am this morning realizing that I hadn't put my pj's back on. :|

But in regards to the weather thing, I don't find that it's too cold to throw off the pj's once in a while. But our homes may be heated differently.

I have never stripped for Mrs. R. Everytime I try to dance for her, she laughs and accuses me of having no rhythm, which her and her mom simply do out of habit. I could drop the hottest moves in front of them and they'd still say that, just in an effort to keep me from feeling good about myself.

I've never received a strip show either. Mrs. Redguard has too many issues with her body. We can hardly ever get to the lovin' without her turning off the lights, or hiding under the blanket.

Nothing that I say seems to help that. I tried talking to her about it last night and she said that if she were me, she wouldn't want to see herself.

Mrs. Redguard needs to join our fitness competition. B)