Title: What Turns You On? (quiz)
andiesmama - February 17, 2006 01:42 PM (GMT)
Take this quiz to find out your "sex type"....
What Turns You On? squatpuke - February 17, 2006 02:12 PM (GMT)
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Looks like its for chicks...
andiesmama - February 17, 2006 02:15 PM (GMT)
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all right all right....I'll move it....sheesh!! B)
But it IS funny to think of you guys trying to answer these questions... :haha:
mdolls68 - February 17, 2006 03:24 PM (GMT)
The Playmate
Not for you the soft lights and soft touch. You like sex, hot and breathless. Forget spiritual connections and emotional bonds -- what you're looking for is sexual abandon. It's incredibly liberating to ditch role expectations and go for no-fuss sex, when books and movies imply that women only want tenderness. Maybe, after a hard day at work, you welcome the pure release of physical pleasure or the feeling of someone else being in charge for a change. Or maybe you're impatient and need the immediate gratification of a quick and powerful orgasm. You're the hedonist of the chart, primal woman.
Your best love props: The shower stall, Wonderbras.
Good mood music: Prince.
Prime time for love: Under cover of night.
How to get what you want from him: You could tell him precisely what you want him to do -- tear your clothes off and throw you on the bed -- but having to stage-direct him can kill the mood. Instead, talk to him about the effect you're looking for. Or rent a movie that shows him what you?ve got in mind. Once he understands what you crave, he'll figure out how to get you there.
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The questions were hard to answer as not that many really applied to how I would do things, etc. I just chose the answer that just even remotely resembled anything I would do.
andiesmama - February 17, 2006 03:46 PM (GMT)
From your posts, sounds like you Doris!! :eyebrows: What do you think?
ceres - February 17, 2006 06:22 PM (GMT)
The Sensualist
You prefer the smell of his hair, the taste of his lips, and the feel of his skin to the act of sex. For you, the pleasure of lovemaking is how the experience fills your senses. "People high in sensuality are more interested in the process of sex than the end result," says Louis Janda, Ph.D., professor of psychology at Old Dominion University in Norfolk, Virginia. "They enjoy the simple pleasures of touching perhaps as much as the more intense orgasm."
Yeah... that sounds accurate. deb stop procrastinating and tell us your results :whip:
andiesmama - February 17, 2006 06:32 PM (GMT)
yeah yeah yeah....I just wanted to see what some of you OTHER gals came up with first! lol
I'm a "sensualist" too....sounds accurate...
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The Sensualist
You prefer the smell of his hair, the taste of his lips, and the feel of his skin to the act of sex. For you, the pleasure of lovemaking is how the experience fills your senses. "People high in sensuality are more interested in the process of sex than the end result," says Louis Janda, Ph.D., professor of psychology at Old Dominion University in Norfolk, Virginia. "They enjoy the simple pleasures of touching perhaps as much as the more intense orgasm."
Your best love props: Incense, silky scarves, soft pillows.
Good mood music: Enya or any New Age tunes.
Prime time for love: Dawn or dusk, when the light casts the most interesting shadows on your naked bodies.
How to get what you want from him: Be clear about your need
for sensuality -- teach him how to set the stage for it, or do it yourself. "It's difficult to say, 'I want this and you?re the one who has to figure it out,'" says Linda DeVillers, Ph.D., author of Love Skills. "If you?re more sensual, you have to create that environment." |
Sarah - February 17, 2006 07:33 PM (GMT)
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The Romantic
With all your longing for poetry, moonlight and any little Victorian thing, you sometimes seem a sexual prude, but you're not. To you, sex is the embodiment of the profound love you have for your husband, and you don't want that sensation rushed or trivialized. "Romantic sex isn't as much about pure contact as sensual sex is," says Linda DeVillers, Ph.D., author of Love Skills. "You're not necessarily even touching at first." Instead, you're focused on what the sexual union means to you. You welcome sensual elements in your lovemaking, but you're less concerned with the physical pleasure they bring than the emotional sense of fulfillment.
Your best love props: Candles, a steamy bubble bath.
Good mood music: Whitney Houston.
Prime time for love: On a starry night or during a rainstorm.
How to get what you want from him: Do you need him to tell you how much he loves you before and during sex? Then spell it out for him. "He may not try something new because he doesn?t know what to do. We can't expect men to think like we do," says Sharyn Hillyer, a marriage and family therapist in Beverly Hills. "You need to tell him things like, 'I'd love it if you'd put on some soft music.' Most men say they love a woman who gives them specific feedback." |
Mandy - February 18, 2006 01:00 AM (GMT)
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The Sensualist
You prefer the smell of his hair, the taste of his lips, and the feel of his skin to the act of sex. For you, the pleasure of lovemaking is how the experience fills your senses. "People high in sensuality are more interested in the process of sex than the end result," says Louis Janda, Ph.D., professor of psychology at Old Dominion University in Norfolk, Virginia. "They enjoy the simple pleasures of touching perhaps as much as the more intense orgasm."
Your best love props: Incense, silky scarves, soft pillows.
Good mood music: Enya or any New Age tunes.
Prime time for love: Dawn or dusk, when the light casts the most interesting shadows on your naked bodies.
How to get what you want from him: Be clear about your need
for sensuality -- teach him how to set the stage for it, or do it yourself. "It's difficult to say, 'I want this and you're the one who has to figure it out,'" says Linda DeVillers, Ph.D., author of Love Skills. "If you're more sensual, you have to create that environment." |
hope4today - February 18, 2006 02:24 AM (GMT)
The Romantic
With all your longing for poetry, moonlight and any little Victorian thing, you sometimes seem a sexual prude, but you're not. To you, sex is the embodiment of the profound love you have for your husband, and you don't want that sensation rushed or trivialized. "Romantic sex isn't as much about pure contact as sensual sex is," says Linda DeVillers, Ph.D., author of Love Skills. "You're not necessarily even touching at first." Instead, you're focused on what the sexual union means to you. You welcome sensual elements in your lovemaking, but you're less concerned with the physical pleasure they bring than the emotional sense of fulfillment.
Your best love props: Candles, a steamy bubble bath.
Good mood music: Whitney Houston.
Prime time for love: On a starry night or during a rainstorm.
How to get what you want from him: Do you need him to tell you how much he loves you before and during sex? Then spell it out for him. "He may not try something new because he doesn?t know what to do. We can't expect men to think like we do," says Sharyn Hillyer, a marriage and family therapist in Beverly Hills. "You need to tell him things like, 'I'd love it if you'd put on some soft music.' Most men say they love a woman who gives them specific feedback."
Yep, this pretty much sounds like me. Like Doris I found the questions hard to answer but chose the closest I could.
~MG - February 19, 2006 01:53 AM (GMT)
The Flirt
For you, the thrill is in the seduction, and the best foreplay is always in the head. You love the chase that leads up to sex -- and you love trading roles with him about who's the pursuer. You love knowing you can bring him to his knees more than you love actually bringing him to his knees. Problem is, you get bored too easily, in bed and out.
Your best love props: Wit and words -- sexual banter always gets you going.
Good mood music: Brazilian bossa nova.
Prime time for love: Office hours, when you're supposed to be working.
How to get what you want from him: Use your creativity to devise new, clever games of seduction. Keep him guessing -- and he'll never complain about playing a role in the scripts you direct.
Interesting stuff...